How To Follow More People Without Losing Your Friends

by Brett Borders on March 23, 2009

Some folks try to keep their online life meaningful and manageable by only following people they know personally. Others decide to “go big” and follow thousands of people from all over the world. By casting their net wider, they discover an abundance of new information, connections and opportunities beyond what their “real life” network could afford them.

Thanks to some new social media filtering tools, you can now have the advantages of following a large network — without losing track of the people who are dearest and most important to you. Here’s how:

Twitter: How to Make Groups in Tweetdeck

If you’re using the web version of Twitter, stop. The rudimentary interface makes it difficult to communicate with more than a handful of people, and it’s easy to miss people’s messages. Tweetdeck is a free client, or desktop software application, designed to make Twitter more usable. So download Tweetdeck. Install it. Fire it up. And get ready to expand your social possibilities:

1.) Click on the “Groups” icon in the top, upper left toolbar:

2.) Give your group a name, check all the members, and click “Save Group” at the bottom:

3.) Click the “Move Column” Icon at the bottom, scooting it over to where you want it:


3.) VoilĂ ! You now have a list of your local friends’ updates, right next to the ‘raw flow’ of all friends:

Update: @ApothecaryJeri left a great tip about how to manage your groups once they are already set up in the comments below.

Facebook: How to Use Friend Lists to Filter Updates

Facebook now lets you create friend filters / groups so you can follow important groups of people without getting lost in an avalanche of random noise. To get started, go to your Friends page. Then:

1.) Click “Make a New List” in the left toolbar:

2.) Enter a name for this friend group:

3.) Click the “Select Multiple Friends” text link

4.) Click the icon of each friend you want to add, then click “Save List“:

5.) Return to your Home Page. Select the filtered friends list in the left sidebar, and… voilĂ ! Good, clean, filtered updates that are easy to digest :)

Now you’re free to follow a large network people and have the ability to send them messages and invitations, without getting smothered in the minute details, quizzes and emotions of every single person’s online life. I personally made a list for local Colorado friends, a list for social media & business people, one for family, and one for childhood friends.

Digg: How to Follow A Few Friends’ Submissions Closely

In an effort to crack down on blind reciprocal voting, Digg has continually tweaked their user interface to make it more difficult and time consuming to Digg your friends’ stories. Fortunately, they still give you RSS feeds for each of your friends’ stories… allowing you keeping close tabs on your best friends’ stories while maintaining a much larger network of mutual friends (i.e. for networking & shouts).

I personally like the Whizz RSS extension for Firefox. It’s quick and it’s integrated directly into your browser screen, so you don’t have to launch another tab or application. First, install Whizz RSS and then go to the profile page of the friend you want to follow closely:

1.) Click on “Submitted” in the “Stats” section of the lower right sidebar:

2.) Click the yellow sidebar icon in the horizontal Whizz RSS Firefox toolbar :

3.) Right-click (or control-click) on the top category and “Add Category” for this group. Call it ‘Digg Friends’:

4.) Drag and drop the RSS icon from your friend’s profile page into your new ‘Digg Friends’ folder:

Now you can click the yellow sidebar icon in the Whizz RSS toolbar any time, and go through your closest friends stories. If you right click, you can “Open All Unread Stories” in tabs and Digg away – giving you much better speed and control than Digg’s native system allows.

Do you have any tips on how to follow more people without getting buried in noise? Please share them below!

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  • Agree - great tips to filter the "noise" and the "convo" so you can decide how to best participate in social media. Thank you!
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  • This is great stuff! I love tutorials with pictures in them. I just did this friends list switch on Facebook and it's a great way to go. I have yet to master tweetdeck so this will be a big help. Thanks!
  • Thanks, thanks, I'm going to do this!

    krissy knox :)
    follow me on twitter:
    http://www.twitter.com/iamkrissy
  • Great, this shall come in handy when I have more friends joining the Twitter network. Currently they all think I'm a Twitter & Blogger geek who has nothing better to do then spending time online (WRONG!).

    I heard alot fo good things about Tweetdeck, especially in managing a large amount of followers into groups; while having the search tool & split screen as well. Currently still using Twhirl but may put TweetDeck into serious considerations now. Thanks Brett for sharing.


    @wchingya
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  • TweetDeck users should also become familiar with TweetDeck's filters. Within any group, you can easily filter tweets by various criteria including user name, tweeted text, source of tweet, or time stamp. You can quickly create filters to include or exclude tweets. It's a must-know feature for Twitter power users.
  • F. Andy Seidl,

    Very, very true... Andy! Sometimes I like to filter stuff out (i.e., #FollowFriday overload).

    It sounds like a great idea for a blog post!
  • What I most commonly filter out is all the blip.fm and URLs of other services that pump radio playlists into Twitter. And speaking of FollowFriday... I think that whole idea as gone rather downhill (but it could, perhaps, recover). I posted separately about that here: http://faseidl.com/public/item/229791
  • Very useful advice on Tweetdeck. I'm sold!
  • Tim,

    Awesome! See you on there?
  • Sophie
    I am new to Twitter and would like to download Tweetdeck. However I always get worried about the disclaimer about bugs etc. Is it safe to install?
  • Sophie,

    Tweetdeck has a few bugs... which mean software glitches....

    but not "bugs" like viruses!

    It's totally safe to try!
  • spamless
    TweetDeck is fun, and I use it already, but it massively mem-leaks on me and I have to limit my time with and use of it. Just leaving it open unused 8 hours causes it to suck up 400MB of available memory on my XP Pro SP3 machine.
  • A great article, I do practice all of these already and it really works. Especially on twitter you can't follow everyone but you can follow people who interest you or catch your eye, makes it easier to communicate
  • Benjamin,

    For sure! Filtering is one of the essential skills of living in the digital information age.
  • I don't follow the so called celeb....they have enough folks stroking there.....egos
  • Good post...Thank you.

    There's also a really easy way to add new people to your group on twitter with out going thru your whole list..which can take a lot of your time & toll on your eyes.

    When using Tweetdeck.. hover over your friends picture or avatar ...in the lower right hand corner of the picture...the "gear symbol" will appear..it says "other actions" Click on that....
    Scroll down to "add to group"
    Pick your group!
    I've found this to be an invaluable tool, time saver & much more spontaneous than clicking on the title of the group and editing it that way.

    Thanks for all the good ideas....and quality posts.
    Blessings..In Peace
    Jeri
  • Great, @ApothecaryJeri !

    Not sure if this has been an incremental addition to TweetDeck since your comment:
    Instead of mousing through the gear submenu, one can now just click on the little [+] right next to the user's name at the bottom of their tweets, to add them to one o more of your groups.

    Hal
  • Oh.. great tips, nice points. I haven't tried tweetdeck yet, maybe I should try it now :)
  • Jehzeel Laurente,

    Get it, try it and never look back!
  • Such great info! I've been wondering how to do this, I barely can find the tweets I want to see sometimes.

    Thanks!
  • Lisa,

    This should make your life easier, but also make Twitter more usable + addictive :P
  • following all these people is becoming a bigger and bigger thing to manage for me.

    the reason why i don't used tweetdeck?

    one is that it doesn't get along with my laptop. i keep my laptop intentionally slow and memory-poor - otherwise i go berserk with it and start doing things like going on second life, which my family would kill me for.

    the other is that i LOVE the visual part of twitter. the avatars, the backgrounds - yum. tweetdeck does away with it all. twitter is my online living room. i don't want a generic looking living room!

    if you can think of a solution to these two problems, i'd be very very grateful!
  • Isabella,

    Hmmm... I know Tweetdeck takes up a lot of resources. Maybe you could try Thwirl?
  • Thank you so much for the step-by-step instructions complete with screenshots -- that is so helpful!!
  • Andrea,

    Glad to be of service.
  • Question: What if you have Win2000? Tweekdeck isn't capatible. Is there an alternative you can recommend?
  • Carmen,

    I recommend getting a newer operating system if you possibly can (linux is free). I'm not sure what, if any Twitter clients were created for a 9 year old operating system. Twitter has only been around for like 3 years so I'm not sure.
  • This is a great tutorial on filtering out the noises. Most people complain about not following people because they don't want too much noise and these are the perfect solutions, great article!
  • Justin,

    Filtering is a must. you get the benefits of a big network (ability to DM people, send invites, etc.) and the benefits of having all your friends in one place/
  • Great post BrettI I was just telling some friends about Groups in TweetDeck, but hadn't thought of doing the same for Facebook or Digg. I've toyed with similar functions in FriendFeed, but the info gets overwhelming fast!
  • Filtering stuff is the only way to have a large network and still have the site be usable.

    I agree about Friendfeed! So much info, a lot of it is echoed.
  • Herman Smith
    Great info, thanks!
  • Herman,

    Glad you found some value! Hopefully this'll help keep things separated.
  • Harry
    Great, high quality post as always! Thanks for the
    valuable information.
  • Get yourself TweetDeck, Harry and see you on the Twitterside!
  • I am using Groups in TweetDeck to see the updates from my friends for a long time. But I moved the columns for easier Navigation. Thanks for the details. Since I follow a lot of people, but at the same time, I also want to keep in constant touch with my friends, I have been using TweetDeck to follow my friends.
  • John Samuel,

    Tweetdeck is an awesome program but it's a little cryptic. Glad to be of assistance.
  • TommyofRoguestar
    Hey thanks for the wonderful post Brett. I've been meaning to download tweetdeck for the past week or so and this just made me want to go do it. Also I'm going to find you on FB now.
  • Tommy,

    Tweetdeck is awesome. You'll wonder how you were able to communicate without it.
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